test: fixes due to new cluster api.
- changed worker `death` to `exit`.
- corrected argument type expected by worker `exit` handler.
test: more tests of cluster.worker death
cluster: fixed arguments on worker 'exit' event
worker 'exit' event now emits arguments consistent with the
corresponding event in child_process module.
This patch will kill the worker once it has lost its connection with the parent.
However if the worker are doing a suicide, other measures will be used.
This patch add a worker.disconnect() method there will stop the worker from accepting
new connections and then stop the IPC. This allow the worker to die graceful.
When the IPC has been disconnected a 'disconnect' event will emit.
The patch also add a cluster.disconnect() method, this will call worker.disconnect() on
all connected workers. When the workers are disconneted it will then close all server
handlers. This allow the cluster itself to self terminate in a graceful way.
This simplify the internalMessage and exit event handling
And simply relay message and error event to the worker object
Note that the error event was not relayed before
